Gay

UnisexGirls' nameBoys' name

Happy; cheerful

Gay has been given to 19,367 babies in the U.S. since 1886. It was used fewer than 5 times in 2025, so it doesn't appear in the latest year's list — today it's a genuinely uncommon pick. Its peak year was 1959, with 682 recorded. It's used for both sexes: 93% girls, 7% boys all-time.

Babies named Gay, 1982

1 in 585,000

Gay over time, 1880–2025

GirlsBoys
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Based on births in the U.S. Babies given the name each year. Hover the chart — or focus it and use the arrow keys — for any year. Gaps mean the name was given fewer than 5 times that year; these counts are unpublished.

Girls or boys — Gay over time

In 1982, Gay went to 100% girls and 0% boys.

18831982

A sex is only published in years it reached five applications, so a stretch at 0% or 100% means the other side stayed under that floor — not that it was never used.

Gay: meaning, origin, and history

Happy; cheerful

English word name, through French

About Gay

Gay is an English word name drawn from the older meaning “happy” or “cheerful.” It was used for girls and also appears in men's names, notably that of writer Gay Talese. Its twentieth-century history reflects a major change in the everyday word, which acquired a widely established meaning associated with homosexuality.

Meaning and sound

The English adjective came from French gai, carrying senses of joy, cheerfulness, and a carefree manner. The personal name belongs to that older positive vocabulary, alongside names formed from other familiar words.

Gay is pronounced GAY, one syllable rhyming with day. Gaye and Gae are spelling relatives. The written name is short, but its cultural history includes both independent given-name use and familiar forms attached to longer names.

By the middle of the twentieth century, gay was becoming established in its modern sexual-identity sense. That shift changed how the name was encountered in ordinary language. American birth records show a later fall in its use, though a time series alone cannot establish every family's reason for choosing or avoiding it.

Gay Talese

Writer Gay Talese was born Gaetano Talese in Ocean City, New Jersey. He studied journalism at the University of Alabama, contributing sports writing to the student newspaper before graduating in 1953.

After an early job as a copyboy and service in the United States Army, he returned to The New York Times as a sports reporter in 1956. He later moved into general news and began contributing to Esquire.

His writing became associated with New Journalism, using scenes, observed detail, and close attention to character within nonfiction. His books include The Bridge, published in 1964, The Kingdom and the Power in 1969, and Honor Thy Father in 1971.

The Kingdom and the Power examines The New York Times as an institution. His memoir A Writer's Life appeared in 2006. In this bearer's case, Gay is a public familiar form associated with Gaetano rather than an explanation of every independent use of the English word name.

A famous magazine profile

Talese's Frank Sinatra Has a Cold appeared in the April 1966 issue of Esquire. Sent to profile Sinatra, Talese constructed a portrait through observation and the people around the singer when a direct interview was unavailable.

The article became a landmark of literary journalism. Its use of narrative scenes helped demonstrate how the methods of storytelling could shape a factual magazine profile, giving Gay Talese an enduring place in discussions of reporting and prose.

American popularity

Gay's largest recorded American female birth count came in 1959, with 682 births and a rank of No. 362. The male series reached its highest count earlier, with 42 births in 1941.

The final published observations in the local series are six girls in 1982 and six boys in 1974. Counts below five are omitted, so those endpoints do not establish that the name disappeared completely.

Sources & methodologyReferences, data & attribution

Existing Wiktionary material is attributed under CC BY-SA 4.0 where applicable. Popularity figures use the local Social Security Administration exact-spelling series; name-sex-year counts below five are omitted.

Wiktionary material is available under CC BY-SA 4.0.

How popular is Gay?

In 2025, Gay was not listed in the latest American name records. The U.S. birth records first list this spelling for girls in 1886; its largest annual count was 682 in 1959. Rankings count each spelling separately. They describe national use, so local familiarity can differ. The popularity chart shows whether the name has remained common, returned after a quieter period, or risen recently.

How common is Gay?

Gay had fewer than 5 recorded uses in 2025, so these figures use 1982, the last year it was published.

Among all babies, 1982
1 in 585,000
6 of 3,507,638 births
Among girls only
1 in 282,000
<0.01% of girls
Rank, 1982
Unranked
Fewer than 5 uses
Coin-flip room size
405,219 kids
Even odds of a second one

Where Gay sits on the popularity scale

Rarest published (5 a year)#1 — Olivia (13,544)

Chance at least one other child shares the name

If the other children were drawn at random from the 1982 national name distribution. Real classrooms cluster by region and community, so treat these as a floor, not a ceiling.

Class of 20Under 1%
Class of 30Under 1%
Grade of 100Under 1%
School of 500Under 1%

Put another way: gather 405,219 children born in 1982 and it's an even bet that one of them is another Gay. In a class of 30 the chance is Under 1%.

When Gays were born

Half of everyone ever recorded as Gay was born before 1950 — so the typical Gay is around 75 today.

Median birth year
1950
About 75 years old
Biggest decade
1950s
31.4% of all use
Born in the last 25 years
27.7%
Spread across generations
Recorded since 1950
9,457
People you could plausibly meet
Choose a decade

1950s — 31.4% of all recorded uses (5,654).

Is Gay rising or falling?

Rank movement and count movement can disagree — the number of distinct names in use keeps growing, so a name holding a steady count still slides down the list. Both are shown.

Rank vs 1 year ago
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Not ranked then
Rank vs 5 years ago
New entry
Not ranked then
Rank vs 10 years ago
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Not ranked then
Births vs 10 years ago
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Not published both years
Share of its own peak
0%
Peak was 1959 (682)
Years since peak
66
Years
Year-to-year steadiness
Shifting
22.9% average annual change
Best rank ever
#315
1943

Where Gay is used — girls

Across 1910–2025, Gay was most concentrated in Utah — about 1 in 4,545 girls, against 1 in 10,597 across all states with data. It was least common in Nevada (1 in 100,000).

122 per 100,000

Most concentrated

  1. 1Utah1 in 4,545
  2. 2Hawaii1 in 5,263
  3. 3Louisiana1 in 5,263
  4. 4Oklahoma1 in 5,556
  5. 5West Virginia1 in 5,882
  6. 6Texas1 in 6,250
  7. 7Idaho1 in 6,667
  8. 8Virginia1 in 6,667

Shading is the share of that state's recorded girls given this name, not the raw count — otherwise the map would just show which states are biggest. Unshaded states have no published records for this period. U.S. birth records suppress state-year counts below 5; state counts therefore don't add up to the national total. Every state links to its full rankings. Gay has too little recent state data to map, so this covers all years from 1910.

Where Gay is used — boys

Across 1910–2025, Gay was most concentrated in West Virginia — about 1 in 50,000 boys, against 1 in 868,677 across all states with data. It was least common in Texas (1 in —).

02 per 100,000

Most concentrated

  1. 1West Virginia1 in 50,000
  2. 2California1 in —
  3. 3Michigan1 in —
  4. 4North Carolina1 in —
  5. 5New York1 in —
  6. 6Tennessee1 in —
  7. 7Texas1 in —

Shading is the share of that state's recorded boys given this name, not the raw count — otherwise the map would just show which states are biggest. Unshaded states have no published records for this period. U.S. birth records suppress state-year counts below 5; state counts therefore don't add up to the national total. Every state links to its full rankings. Gay has too little recent state data to map, so this covers all years from 1910.

Gay around the world

Where Gay ranks in official birth records elsewhere in the world. Rankings only — the number of births isn’t comparable between places, so it isn’t shown.

  • South Australia
    1944–1979
    #627
    in 1979

Popularity data from Consumer and Business Services (South Australia). CBS SA data under CC BY 4.0.

Notable people named Gay

People whose public names include Gay, backed by Wikidata given-name records and ordered by linked Wikimedia pages. The name may be a middle name.

People data from Wikidata (CC0). Fame is measured, not judged — the order reflects how widely each person is documented, not the U.S. birth records popularity this page is otherwise about.

Gay by the numbers

The raw record for each sex the name is used for.

As a girl's name

Rank in 2025
Unranked
Trend vs 5 yrs ago
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Best rank ever
#315
1943
Peak year
1959
682 that year
First recorded
1886
Last recorded
1982
All-time count
17,985
Count in 2025
Under 5

As a boy's name

Rank in 2025
Unranked
Trend vs 5 yrs ago
—
Best rank ever
#773
1890
Peak year
1941
42 that year
First recorded
1883
Last recorded
1974
All-time count
1,382
Count in 2025
Under 5

Names similar to Gay

Matched on shared beginnings and endings, similar length, and comparable popularity.

Names with a curve like Gay

Not spelling — timing. These names rose, peaked and faded in the same years as Gay, so they read as being from the same moment even when they look nothing alike.

Sibling names for Gay

Names from the same era and popularity tier — the two things that make a sibling set feel deliberate — skipping lookalike spellings and shared initials.

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